Confessions of a psychotherapist: Husband editionWhat your wives tell me that they may not be telling youMay 27, 20211May 27, 20211
Unrealistic Expectations & the Rebecca Renner Saga5 things to avoid unless you crave very public rejectionMay 26, 20213May 26, 20213
10 signs it’s time to leave your toxic parentsThe pain of making the choice to leave behind a toxic parental relationship is indescribable. After all, even as adults, we still want our…Feb 20, 20211Feb 20, 20211
Choose a love that chooses youOnce again, you find yourself looking at the phone, wondering when or if your love is going to call. You would never admit that you are…Feb 3, 2021Feb 3, 2021
What Coronavirus can teach us about lifeIf you’re feeling extra horny, or romantic, or loving, don’t be surprised or ashamed.Mar 21, 20201Mar 21, 20201
The white moderate is STILL the biggest threat to progressThis morning, there was a cloud over the city of Denver, literally and metaphorically. It seemed appropriate for the day to reflect the…May 10, 2019May 10, 2019
Dori & Jubilee’s Final GiftDori came to me in March of 2006. A co-worker who couldn’t keep her anymore left her on the ranch I was working on at the time and I…Apr 27, 20192Apr 27, 20192
To the girls who raised themselvesThis one is for the girl with the poorly applied eye shadow, and the foundation that’s a slight shade off. What the people who snicker…Feb 23, 2019Feb 23, 2019
Offset isn’t romantic; he’s toxicI interrupt my social media hiatus to say Offset, what are you doing?Dec 16, 20184Dec 16, 20184
To the guy who wants to “get to know me”So, I did a thing. I made an application to get to know me because I’ve noticed a pattern recently. A guy will reach out on social media…Oct 19, 20181Oct 19, 20181
The Price of IntimacyOn any given day, you can open your phone or computer and connect with people all over the world. One click and you are able to “reach out…Jul 19, 2018Jul 19, 2018
Sacred SexualityThe word sex itself is loaded with the cultural context one lives in, the shadows of one’s family of origin and the person’s past…Jul 3, 2018Jul 3, 2018
The Ugly Truth About LiesI really, really, really dislike lies. In my home, my children know that if they do something and own up to it, they are likely to have a…Jun 19, 2018Jun 19, 2018
Choose a lover like thisChoose a lover who, when they look at you, they genuinely see you. Choose a lover who peers beneath the surface of your skin and looks down…Jun 15, 2018Jun 15, 2018
Stop policing women’s sexualityIt happens all the time to women — people who take it upon themselves to critique our sexuality, usually based on some outdated beliefs…Jun 15, 2018Jun 15, 2018
How to choose a loverBy lover, I don’t mean merely an intimate partner or a sexual dalliance.Jun 15, 20181Jun 15, 20181